Tuesday, September 29, 2009

Mr. Diamond

By viewing someone's profile, you are sending them a message. I don't mean a literal message, but one that invites them to view your profile.

There are several members on SA that are "Diamond Club Members", meaning that their wealth and identity are verified; you know they are the real deal. A few days after browsing some of them, I was delightfully surprised that one of them messaged me. His message was straight to the point that he would spoil me endlessly. He gave me his number.

My reply was that I wanted to talk more online before speaking on the phone. He did not reply. I sensed that he thought I was a waste of time because I would not call or give my number out. I was seriously being careful but in a way, I could understand. He wanted to cut through the bullshit.

I ended up giving him my number and he called the next day. I honestly have somewhat of a phone phobia as I loathe talking on the phone. I let it go to voice mail and later mustered up the courage to call him. Mr. Diamond was rather funny and we hit it off on the phone. Since I had plans that evening, we met up the next day.

My first mistake here was that I did not meet him at a public place. My second mistake was that I did not tell anyone what I was up to. I hate to admit it but I was being naive. Luckily no harm came my way and I definitely learned my lesson.

I met with Mr. Diamond who was traveling here on business. He was very straightforward, even when we were on the phone. He brought up the financial aspect of the arrangement and his expectations; however, I was not expecting him to try and sleep with me right then and there! Long story short, I was not attracted to him, his expectation of wanting sex right off the bat was a put off (hire an escort will ya!) and well, I learned A LOT from this meeting and it was time to reevaluate.

5 comments:

  1. I've seen the Diamond members but I've never heard of anyone getting contacted by them. That's interesting that he wanted to have sex right away- I wonder if these Diamond members feel like they're winning a popularity context by being featured, and therefore can have anything/everything they want. I guess being on the front page of SA.com makes you a kind of celebrity in the sugar world. Or something.

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  2. popularity contest*** (not context)

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  3. Yeah I think he felt like to was entitled. Also, I think he was used to "desperate girls" or very dependent girls because he kept saying that most of the girls who delve into the sugarworld really NEED the money. I thought to myself, well, no that is not true. Some are here to enhance their current lifestyle, start a business, etc...I am glad I walked away.

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  4. *he was, not to entitled. Ack, I am not thinking straight today.

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  5. i have a phobia of the phones too...i HATE them...i still havent spoken to any pots on the phone, even tho i know i could prob get farther if i just did it.

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