Oh, Brother Part II

So my brother asked me last night what I have gotten so far from my sugardaddy. I told him cash ($900 to be exact but I didn't tell him that). He asked, What for? You a prostitute now?" I stuttered, "Well no...uh, my companionship, my time".

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"Well you should get him to pay all your bills". lol ok.

I then went on to explain that the arrangement is fairly new and that we're still trying to feel each other out (no pun intended).

My brother's comment, coupled with other Sugarbaby posts on "Hookers vs. escorts vs. sugarbabies" motivated me to post my perspective on who I think I am as a sugarbaby. I am not going to try and make a broad statement or definition as I just think every situation is unique--Individuals are just that, individuals. We all want different things.

What am I looking for?

First and foremost, there has to be chemistry in such a relationship for me as I need sex too! I haven't been laid in 4 months. I am also looking to enhance my current lifestyle. I would say I am in the middle class right now. I am looking for financial assistance so I do not have to worry about surviving while trying to figure out what I want to do with my life. I also have many expensive hobbies and things I'd like to try.

What am I not looking for?

A boyfriend!

With that said, do I think that I am a prostitute? No. Do you? Maybe. I just see myself as an adventurous individual who is seeking companionship and luxuries. Not just one or the other.

And if it works for now, why not? :)

Secrets, what secrets?

My brother found out today that I have a Sugardaddy. He's no dummy. He saw me get picked up by my SD's driver last week for my second date. He had asked my IRL (Sugarbaby) friend who my "rich boyfriend" was. She played dumb. Gotta love her.

Now I have nothing to hide. Why? I am a grown woman and make my own choices. What surprised me was that my brother was not phased at all. I'm actually glad he asked because now I won't have to be a ninja when I travel with my SD. My brother did ask several questions about Mr. Chemistry like how I met him, what he does and so forth. I answered truthfully and even mentioned SA.com...and then...he asked if he could get a Sugarmommy ;) Oh brother how I love you.

Now...would I openly talk about it to my parents? Hell no! They already know the other crazy shit I've done in the past and they don't need to know about this! Ironicly, my father and I have openly joked about Sugardaddies, even today. Ah...the irony. So now let me ask you ladies, how many of you have told someone about your sugarlifestyle, whether it be a best friend or family member?