Seriously?

After taking a break from sugar, I have a decent looking pot SD on the horizon, however, I don't know if I should be amused or annoyed. I had asked for his photos and he sent one normal one, and the rest were rather risque, but not nude. So ladies, should I meet him??? Do I need to get over the fact that men in general think with their other head? It seems like so many of these pot SDs are like horny teenagers but they are also the ones who are WILLING TO SPOIL ASAP. I mean, I want to be spoiled ASAP so really, shouldn't I just be amused? Maybe that one pot millionaire in the past was right, maybe I am too picky!?